I go back and forth between loving the idea of a bucket list. As an sometimes overly organized person, I love crossing individual items off of the list and planning. I swear I’m always planning. However, the argument of enjoying life as it comes, not just by a list, strikes a chord with me. What I’ve done is create a hybrid. Instead of creating a strict list of ideas to follow, I write down items as I enjoy theme. A retroactive bucket list, if you will. I have an entire journal dedicated to it. Whether it’s dinner with an old friend or visiting a new country, I write it down and date it.
Earlier this week I celebrated my 25th birthday. To be honest, three years ago when I moved to Chicago, I had no idea where I would be at 25. Instead of focusing on where I “should be,” I’ve really focused on where I “have been” over the last quarter of a century.
When I was in middle school, I distinctly remember our teacher having us write a “bucket list.” I wish I could find that list and share it all with you; it would probably contain items like “meet N’Sync” or “get a dog.” However, I do remember writing as #1, see the Macy’s Thanksgiving Day Parade in New York City in person. Every Thanksgiving, we spent the morning watching the parade on the TV from the couch. And every Thanksgiving I dreamed of watching it in person.
Flash forward ten years, not only was I watching the Macy’s Thanksgiving Day Parade, I was PERFORMING in the Macy’s Thanksgiving Parade. It’s a memory I worked very hard to create, and once again, the first item on my “bucket list.”
Here are 25 of my favorite memories I’ve created over the last 25 years:
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Perform in the Macy’s Thanksgiving Day Parade
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Face Mask in the Blue Lagoon
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Dine at a Three Star Michelin Restaurant
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Eat at the World’s Highest Open Air Restaurant
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Bath Elephants at Elephant Nature Park in Thailand
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Sit in the audience of The Tonight Show with Jimmy Fallon
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Have a cocktail made by the world famous bartender, Colin Peter Field, at the Ritz Paris
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Share a bottle of wine with my husband on the steps in Florence
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Visit my childhood home in Honolulu, Hawaii
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Enjoy a meal with my family at my favorite restaurant in the world
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See the pope at the Vatican
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Sail on Lake Michigan
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Explore the Sagrada Familia in Barcelona, Spain
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Sip tea at the Ritz London
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Watch the original cast of Hamilton in New York City
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Place bets at the Kentucky Derby
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Eat waffles in Belgium (do you still call them Belgian waffles?)
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Walk along the Berlin Wall
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Canyoning in Interlaken, Switzerland
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Snack on macarons and sip wine under the Eiffel Tower
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Try sushi in Japan
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Deep sea fishing with my father in the Gulf of Mexico
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Take a pub crawl through the Red Light District in Amsterdam
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Spend Christmas in the Carribbean
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Move to Chicago
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